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Messed up situation

36 replies

jl1983 · 15/03/2015 11:16

You might have read my posts about how I was messed about by an alcoholic... Anyway he's been kicked out by his gf but his ex gf from years ago who is married is now going round every day giving him booze and money so she can get sex out of him. I'm finding it hard to cope as he used me last Thursday and he's now not getting his deserts and getting what he wants

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MikeTheShite · 15/03/2015 11:17

Is this for real?

FlossyMoo · 15/03/2015 11:21

How do you know this?

Regardless of who is doing what you know you need to stay away from him and stay out of his business.

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jl1983 · 15/03/2015 11:52

This is real. His gf kicked him out to sort himself out he was with me thurs just sick she's paying him

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FlossyMoo · 15/03/2015 11:54

If he is your ex what business is it of yours?

Really you need to distance yourself from this otherwise you will be dragged down by it and it will not end well for you.

If you cannot see that this man is no good for you then I have no further advice to offer.

I will not comment on his exes behaviour as frankly I don't know her and I don't know whether it is true.

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jl1983 · 15/03/2015 12:00

I'm one of 3 women I saw him Thursday. Was kicked out fri next thing the other ex is controlling him with money and booze every day knowing that's how he can b controlled

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FlossyMoo · 15/03/2015 12:04

Look if you are happy being one of 3 women in his life then crack on.

If not then change it.

I am not really sure of what you are looking for on this thread? Confused

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jl1983 · 15/03/2015 12:15

Not sure either just got women fighting over him one pqying to keep him whilst he's begging for other one to take him bk.

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FlossyMoo · 15/03/2015 12:18

So why involve yourself??

You know this man is no good so why be as foolish as the other women?

Ditch him and get on with your life OP he will bring you nothing but misery.

nozzz · 15/03/2015 12:23

It's only relevant if you're interested in him, are you OP?

TheFecklessFairy · 15/03/2015 17:54

If he's getting his 'deserts' it will soon all dry up Grin

Ouchbloodyouch · 15/03/2015 17:56

Boom boom ! Feckless Grin

Iflyaway · 15/03/2015 17:59

I'd take myself right out of this carcrash drama.

You know OP you are the only one who can decide for yourself what kind of life you want to have.

What is making you hang on to this horrible man?

whattodoowiththeleftoverturkey · 15/03/2015 18:00

Keep out of it.

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jl1983 · 16/03/2015 00:53

I don't know but really can't b assed now

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jl1983 · 16/03/2015 00:54

Just because maybe I think is it worth fighting over

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NerrSnerr · 16/03/2015 00:57

I reds the other thread. Fighting for him at the moment will end in tears. Keep away (and what he does is his own business anyway)

53Dragon · 16/03/2015 00:58

It's really not - he's an arsehole. The fact that he's an alcoholic too makes him even less of a catch. These men don't change. Trust me - I'm old if not wise and I've seen it so many times. Do yourself a favour, have some self respect and have no contact whatsoever. Block his number, don't talk to him, stay away.

AnyFucker · 16/03/2015 01:03

I think I saw this one on Jeremy Kyle

sodaandcoke · 16/03/2015 01:35

You fight for your man girlfriend.

If the ex gives him one can of Stella, give him two.

If she gives him £5.43, give him £5.60 and a pack of ciggies.

I guarantee he'll be having sex with you in no time at all!

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jl1983 · 16/03/2015 06:42

Well I've had the one on the phone Talling to me as every time he's with the one he tells the other to make her jealous

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jl1983 · 16/03/2015 06:43

And yet she's tginking of taking him bk yet again

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talbotinthesky · 16/03/2015 07:11

He sounds like a right catch. You fight for him girl!

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EhricLovesTheBhrothers · 16/03/2015 07:13

Why on earth would you have this drama in your life? Cut the lot of them out.

Vivacia · 16/03/2015 07:53

Why on earth would you have this drama in your life? Cut the lot of them out.

Absolutely what Ehric said. For goodness' sake.

Plarail123 · 16/03/2015 10:57

What is it about this man that make all these women want him though?

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