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I have a date tomorrow

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Ouchbloodyouch · 05/03/2015 12:14

It happened by accident. I'm on a dating website and I don't really use it. Occasionally I get messages but they usually consist of 'hi'. I had one the other day and he had actually made a bit more of an effort and was quite witty.
We've had a brief to and fro messaging and it transpires that he and I run identical businesses. Maybe not such a good thing but at least its an ice breaker. So we are meeting tomorrow.
what is the done thing these days ? I will be driving so no alcohol. I'm terrified. Haven't been on a date in years!

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handfulofcottonbuds · 05/03/2015 21:27

OMG - frog!!!!

I'm so pleased for you Smile

Soooo, how are you feeling? You definitely need to update.

I don't care about rules or eating. I ate salmon on one of my first dates - pop to the loo and freshen up in case there is a kiss and you'll be fine!

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Ouchbloodyouch · 05/03/2015 21:53

Well. .he mentioned another job he does.. my very close friend is associated with the job he does. It turns out she knows him I asked her honest opinion and apparently he is a really nice guy....

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handfulofcottonbuds · 05/03/2015 21:56

So exciting!

handfulofcottonbuds · 05/03/2015 21:57

Where are you going?

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Ouchbloodyouch · 05/03/2015 22:01

A pub near me. Its on the edge of the city so sort of olde worlde charm but not remote! Oh what to wear..

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handfulofcottonbuds · 05/03/2015 22:04

You need a dating outfit - something you can rely on and feel comfortable in and not have to give it much thought.

Leggings in this weather is more than okay. What are fly boots?

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Ouchbloodyouch · 05/03/2015 22:12

Some boots I have noticed are worn by ladies of my age..

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Ouchbloodyouch · 05/03/2015 22:14

I have many pairs Blush

I have a date tomorrow
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handfulofcottonbuds · 05/03/2015 22:17

Haha - I googled!

Sort out your top and you will feel amazing Smile

You deserve a good night!

Eustasiavye · 05/03/2015 22:50

Good luck!

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Ouchbloodyouch · 05/03/2015 23:00

He is ex-army. Sad i could make mess in an empty room. This does not bode well.

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Ouchbloodyouch · 05/03/2015 23:02

Pfftt

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Balders74 · 05/03/2015 23:13

Lol. I am with you on the mess front. My DD was cross with me today for making her room messy, role reversal!!

Good luck with the date, we will all be eagerly awaiting news Wine

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Ouchbloodyouch · 05/03/2015 23:24

Oh I am doomed. Sad will update you all tomorrow

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Ouchbloodyouch · 06/03/2015 10:11

I don't know why but the ex military thing has really put me off... I shouldn't be so judgy should I? I have massive confidence wobbles about being judged all the time. The lone parent, my crappy car, my low income. The fact that I am so untidy I never vocalise these. Perhaps I should just buy a cat.... Grin

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Ouchbloodyouch · 06/03/2015 10:12

What I mean is I never come across as anything but confident. It just inner doubt.

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Penguinsaresmall · 06/03/2015 10:22

Am v excited for you! My advice, fwiw, don't wear big knickers, wear bonk knickers... Then if you fancy him you can go for it (because why not?).

Delicious where was the hole? Don't know why I'm wondering that Grin

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Ouchbloodyouch · 06/03/2015 10:28

Ha ha penguins I've only got a baby sitter for 2.5 hours. I'm not averse to a quickie but thats too fast for me!

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Penguinsaresmall · 06/03/2015 10:30

So 2.5 hours isn't long enough for you?! I'm scared for the poor man now Grin

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Ouchbloodyouch · 06/03/2015 10:33

I do like a bit of preamble. Eg a drink chat etc...

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NollaigShona · 06/03/2015 16:51

No no no bonking. Keep the big knickers and put barbed wire on them.
If he is worth a bonk , let a relationship develop. Unless he is utterly irresistible and if that is the case then will you ask him if his father is single and tell him that your dearest friend Nollaig.....etc.

HellKitty · 06/03/2015 16:53

Big knickers! Ugly grey old holey ones! You don't shag on a first date Smile

Wait until the second.

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Ouchbloodyouch · 06/03/2015 17:20

There won't be any funny business I promise! My legs are in their winter coat!

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Handywoman · 06/03/2015 18:39

Am a big fan of Fly boots - you simply can't go wrong.

Enjoy Smile

handfulofcottonbuds · 06/03/2015 19:00

It's tonight isn't it? Have a great time - and update us Smile