Ok today my dh was going off with some mates to do something fun. I was staying home to look after the dc. I didn't mind was happy for him. I had even sent him a text telling him to enjoy himself. I had mentioned yesterday that I may take them somewhere whilst he was out. I had asked him what time he would be back he joked and said all day, then said probably lunch time. I got the dc ready, one was being difficult, and we left the house later than I had planned. At about 11.45. On the way to our destination ( approx 20 min walk from house) I texted DH to let him know where we were going and asked him if he'd like to meet us there and we could them go home together. We were only going to be a short while. About 10 mins later I got a very snotty phone call from DH who had arrived home, without his keys to find us not at home. He was furious. Placed the blame completely on my shoulders. I should have told him I had intended on going out. I should have told him to take his keys. It was all about what "I" should have done/said etc...I told him I wasn't responsible for him and his keys. I always take my keys. He refused to see that he was being unreasonable having a go at me. I understand it's frustrating to get locked out. There are lots of cafés around where we live. We weren't far from home and he could have just followed on. Instead he was just really mean to me. I continued to destination with the children and saw one thing and after about 20 mins left again. Am I just being precious?