Should I confront him?

[Weatherwoman]

2 years ago DH sent me a text in error. Long story short...I subsequently discovered that he was texting/messaging 3 women. I've been reading his phone ever since and it's become a bit of an obsession. I don't think he has had any physical relationship with any of them (but not absolutely sure). He knows 2 of them but the third is an unknown who he must have met online. I don't think he has ever met her. I have never seen any encouragement back from the other two.

We have a lovely life, do lots together and a rosy future ahead. We have been married for over 30 years. I don't want to spoil anything but I also don't want him to go too far and spoil anything.

I'm on the brink of asking him about it but can't quite bring myself to show my hand. I haven't seen any new messages for about 3 weeks now.

Anyone had the same situation? ??

Op , talk to him, don't throw 30 years of marriage away but don't leave this festering either

I hope everything works out for you

Thanks buzzardBird...yes is did dissolve into someone else's rant but I have learnt something!

Good luck, OP. I hope you get a resolution that you are completely comfortable with.

MrsThor.....I will...thank you

Thanks Anyfucker....what a name!

All that matters is your feelings and your boundaries, not those of anyone else who posts on here.

Good luck with your talk, I hope you can express clearly what is and is not acceptable and how it makes you feel. Hopefully he'll realise what he's doing isn't harmless and hurts you and will apologise and be remorseful that he's responsible for that.

Thanks Joysmum xx

don't take my name too literally, WW, there is a story behind it