DH and I split up in July this year and we are fairly amicable about it all. However, I am beginning to feel increasingly resentful towards him and it's making me feel quite low.
Basically we split up for many reasons the 2 major ones being the birth of our DD (she is nearly 2 now), which he found hard to handle and the fact that I didn't want to get a full time job because I felt it was unfair leaving DD in childcare from 8-6 (just my point of view, I know others do it). In my defence I was happy to get part time work and downsize the house, but he said it would be impossible to do that on just his wage so treated me like complete crap for a year (which he readily admits).
So what you say...but this is the problem, after all that time being treated like crap with his excuse that he was under financial pressure, he has gone straight out and bought a two bed designer flat (on his wage alone) which cost only a few grand less than our last 3 bed detached house.
I am now, at 32, living with my parents, no job (looking though, interview next week for well paid PT position), he has a new flat, new job (he is a teacher) and is planning to go to Cuba with his mate, who he now has round most weekends!!
So far he has "not had time" to organise maitenance payments, also he gave me £2000 (from a loan) to pay for driving lessons, which I was grateful for, he nows says I need to use it for DD until he can arrange a direct debit. The more I look at it, the more I realise that it was a "guilt" payment because he knew he was going to buy a place and not rent.
He keeps hinting that he is grateful that I won't do anything to get any equity in the flat, which I wouldn't even if I could, but I am just so mad that I am left high and dry where his life has barely changed.
I am being unreasonable?