sex toys to use together?

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Eeek - dp and I are experiencing a mammoth dip in our sex life. .. since ds was born 2 years ago its been a bit hit and miss.

I've always had a higher drive than him and he's a lot more 'traditional' than me.
I'd love to introduce a toy or two to try and spark things up but I don't know how he'll react tbh... hopefully positively but he might be embarrassed.

Any ideas on low level stuff that's not going to scare him off that we can use together? ?

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Isn't it too early to plant vestibular bulbs?

'Eeek'

Reported

Reported? Get a life - it's no different to asking for recommendations for blenders and vacuum cleaners!

I think dp would like the phone thing to be true - he fiddles with his phone way more than he fiddles with me these days!!

I have a life thank you

Do you realise it's half term and there are lots of posters asking about how to spice up their sex life in the hope that Mners will divulge intimate details?

We'll let MNHQ decide.

I do, I'm on half term - I'm a teacher. I asked an adult question on an adult forum in the appropriate board. I'm guessing mnhq will be fine with that.

Why are you picking on me and not the other posters who think it's a thread about getting off on sex ideas?

If you're a teacher then you know all about research rather than write a questionable thread during half term on here when people are suspicious of the reasons why.

Good luck with your sex life!

Picking on you? Really? Tbh the others are just having a giggle as far as I can see.

Enough of my life is policed by term times without people trying to dictate to me here too.

Why is this thread at all questionable?

may has asked a sensible question, in an appropriate way, as she says, on an adult forum?

I cannot see anything wrong at all and will be astounded if MNHQ zap the thread?

Sorry, too many ???'s. Long and crap day and a rare glass of Monday wine...

There's a whole tinternet full of porn out there, why would someone come here to this thread to get their jollies? It's not that racy! bit paranoid really.

Anyone else just Google 'Samsung TLX5000' just in case...?

I did!!

thread reported? Seriously. Looks like MNHQ are like the rest of us and see nothing wrong with it

You can actually get a vibrator which is controlled by an app on your partners phone. Works however far apart you are - allegedly so I hear

Personally, I think you'd do better to look, discuss and decide together. I think it'd be a mistake to spring anything like this on someone conservative. It's horny in itself talking about it and thinking about it together plus it gives him a chance to think about it too.

That's absolutely fine with me if MNHQ do nothing but at least I say it as I suspect loads more have just reported it anyway.

I'll hold my hands up if I'm wrong but yes, paranoia about this is rife during half term.

Good luck OP

Jeez!

A remote control egg is fun. Just slip the remote to you DH and watch the smile spread across his face