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I don't really know if this is normal or I'm just needy?

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Tinytillytot · 06/02/2015 09:05

I've been with DP for two years. We argue a lot and it really gets me down. We haven't spoken for three days now because of something that happened on Tuesday. Let me explain even though I'm embarrassed to do so as it's so petty. We were walking and I was explaining something that had happened at work, I finished the story but DP was just looking straight ahead with no expression on his face. I thought maybe he hadn't heard so repeated but he continued to stare straight ahead with no flicker of acknowledgement or reply etc. I asked him why he was being so rude and his response (as always) was that I'm "mental". He then told me that earlier I'd walked in front of him and that was rude but he didn't feel the need to "pull me up on it". This sort of thing happens all the time. There are other issues, we don't have sex really, once every month maybe and he refuses to kiss me. Recently I asked him to kiss me and he sighed. I feel really unattractive. He will often talk to me like I'm a child repeatedly and robotically in a way that makes me want to scream and I have to dig my nails into my hands to stop myself. If i get upset when we fight then he laughs in my face and says im mad or mental. I'm sorry, this all sounds pathetic but I feel like I'm losing the plot a bit. I don't even know what I'm asking???

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SilkStalkings · 06/02/2015 19:21

Or if you had a child and THEN split up - he would be a nightmare to deal with, making you feel like the worst parent in the world, picking on you whenever he was feeling fed up or inadequate or guilty. You would be tied to him forever!

Twinklestein · 06/02/2015 21:45

If I were you I would be more scared of having a child with this man than anything else. He's awful to you, he'd be awful to the kid and you'd be tied to him for life.

You deserve so much better than this.

Twinklestein · 06/02/2015 21:46

Just read the previous post - almost snap.

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