just called dp a fucking idiot. what's the worst thing you've ever said to your dp in a moment of anger?

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I was cleaning the oven hobs. standing right in front of the oven door

he opened the oven door and the door caught my big toe..the cuticle bit (I think that's the word)

bloody sore!

so my immediate response after exclaiming in pain was to say 'you fucking idiot'

obviously I apologised immediately.

ive never swore at him like that

I once said to stbxh during an argument,

"Fuck you and the horse you rode in on."

To this day I have no idea what I was talking about. I am not Clint Eastwood.

I have called DP many names in arguments but the only thing that seems to have bothered him on a long-term basis is that I said he wasn't a very good driver. Which is absolutely true. He didn't speak to me for about three hours afterwards and still occasionally brings it up.

Och we swear a lot. DH just accidentally touched my hand with the oven glove - it was roasting and burned me and I called him a dickwad. It's fine. He was a dickwad.

(Although are the outside of oven gloves supposed to retain that much heat?)

Laqueen, I think that is so true, I know couples that really are quite miserable together but never argue, because they are scared they will offend, or be snapped at, yet their relationship is so passive aggressive and cold. No holding hands, kisses/hugs/sex in some cases, or rarely talk fondly of each other, but hold on to the guise of 'we don't argue'. I often think you poor buggars.

I'm a lover, not a fighter. But I used to have horrible rows with my ex and flick the Vs at him when he left the room.

Dh and I don't argue. We just don't. And we have plenty of passion and affection, if he's within touching distance we'll be touching.

He does obviously get on my tits at times and I can be short with him, and vice versa, but we've never had a row. Except the drunken one we once had about who loves the other more (no, I love YOU more!).

The worst thing I've ever said was this morning when he hadn't brought me a coffee in bed so I texted him and said 'is the kettle broken?' That was quite passive aggressive I suppose ;)

I've had that row . It got quite heated.

Worst thing I ever said in an argument was "at least I'm not related to the fucking Munsters". And I stayed not related to them by dumping him.

I told both DH and DD (thankfully an adult) that they were "fucking twats" at the local zoo a couple of years ago. In my defense, they were behaving like fucking twats (squabbling like 3 year olds) - and the upshot was that they stopped squabbling and united to tell me how outrageous I was.

I have told DP more than once that he's just like his Mother.

Dh and I do not really row, we have a rock solid passionate relationship but there is just not much to row about. We are both quite laid back characters who generally speaking are quite happy with the lives we have

"You've always traded on your looks but now you're getting old and losing them". Something like that - said out of spite during a row as he is better looking than me and I'm jealous of the fact this has made life a lot easier for him in terms of interacting with people/ people taking an instant liking to him.

I once saw a lovely thread on here where some poor girl was in tears because her husband had just called her a fucking idiot.

MN rode valiantly to her response, cries of ''verbal abuse, LTB, don't stand for this shit'' etc.

But apparently, it's perfectly ok the other way around. Yup, MN's gender bias is alive and well, any other posters want to come in and boast about how they abuse their partners?

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/2297144-So-my-husband-said-to-me

Earlier I was angry at dp as he'd bought food for his lunch and after asking him several times to put it away , it was still there. In a rage I threw it in the cleaning cupboard under the sink and said 'I hope it gets bleach on it and you die' we both burst out laughing after and I apologised I don't know where it came from!

He didn't 'just' call her a fucking idiot though did he? He also said other nasty things, they don't get on, rarely have sex, are not affectionate with each other, uncomfortable around each other etc etc etc.

God if everyone left their partners after occasionally saying 'you fucking idoit/twat' how many people would still be together? Bigger picture required.