We are going away for the weekend with the children to a hotel. We are driving through a large city that has a few shops that aren't in our local town. dp wanted to go to one of these shops and also the apple ship and I thought while he was doing that I could look in some of the shops too. I didn't actually say this is what I had planned as it really was if time allows etc but I didn't see it as something that needed to be explicitly said.
so obviously with us having these few hours before we arrive at the hotel means we have to be up at a decent time.
We are also going out for dinner and I have booked a posh place dp didn't even bother looking at restaurants so I booked one and sent him the link to look at at the start of this week. He said it looked great.
The argument starts when I ask him what he's wearing and he says jeans. now this restaurant is not a jeans kind of place and he knew this because I had mentioned earlier in the week how he may like to get his suit trousers pressed. anyway I said that I think the trousers are more suitable and he goes off on one that 'I don't know him at all'. now he's had lots of opportunity to tell me the restaurant is too posh and he wanted something more relaxed.
He then starts on that tomorrow morning is going to be all about me and I'm so selfish wanting to 'drag him around the shops for hours'.
I tried to stop the argument and walked away and and said we need to calm down. After 10 mons he came upstairs and started on at me again how selfish I am. I said it's not all about you! What is the problem?!
It quickly escalated to him grabbing me by the wrists hard and throwing me on the bed, then getting right in my face shouting at me. I pushed him off and scratched him and started to cry. He says it's all my fault that the weekend away is ruined and now obviously I don't want to go but am wondering if I'm being childish.
Please I need some perspective on last night's events please help! 