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[Janice12D]

I am new to this as my friend told me about this so I joined my problem is I am caught between my ex & my 10 year old daughter , he torments me 24/7 & I dont want to hurt my daughter in any way but can some1 advise me what I should do
thanks

Can you give some more info hun?x

Thank you for replying
My daughter loves her daddy , I am trying to protect her and its so hard she is 10 and innocent , he is a drug addict

As im new to this I am lost in finding who is answering my post

Do you live with him? What does he do?

He is a drug addict that terrorises you 24/7? I know its hard hun and will be hard on your dd (dear daughter) aswell but you need to think of whats best if i were you i'd stop contact and see a solicitor, i'd refuse unsupervised contact until he gets off the drugs at the very least x

I think you know what you should do. Surely it's obvious if you are tormented 24/7 and he's a drug addict?

Not a very good role model for your daughter is he?

I gave him a choice last Feb to choose us or his addiction and he walked out !!! my daughter is so so soft she is innocent he had her today ((supervised)) and when she came home he rang the house phone to see was she ok !! she cried to me saying she got afraid but she loves her daddy .. I gave her cuddles and ask what frightened her she replied her daddy closing his eyes

What kind of supervised access does he have, and where?

I do no he is no role model for my daughter but she asks about him so I can't be the bad person to tell her that she can't see him

my dad bring go her to meet her dad in an open cafe

Why was your daughter frightened? Was he obviously on drugs at the time?

He told my dad he was on priscribed medication from his doctor , but my dad also told him to stop asking my daughter questions about me .. I dont want to involve the police , as he is capable of anything if I did .. I have lost 2 jobs over him I wish I could move away from it all

Has he threatened you? Has he been violent?

I'm relieved he's not living with you then.

I'm not sure what you are asking about. Stopping contact with your DD?

He did traten me & texts me horrible things

((bunchoffives) my daughter asks for him she see's him in a differant way

I know you don't want to involve the police, but he's obviously a horrible bastard. It might be an idea to phone 101 when you get a chance and ask then for advice? It would be up to you if you wanted to take things further with them.

my dad says all the time to stop all contact but he has a big family and tratens them upon me ..I cant tell my dad this .. I am so tired of crying .. if a person was asking me this I would say go to the police !! get ur daughter away from him.. but it's me and I lock in side thinking of what he could do

He is a #asturd and he is also a born again Christian !!!

Why don't you talk to your dad about all this?

It's ok, you can say bastard here!

RandomNPC)) I wish I could get the courage to tell my dad and my whole family .. I no I am so silent against all of this but I just freeze when his name is mentioned ..

Does he threaten you generally, or is it all about contact with your daughter?

How do you feel about talking to Women's Aid about this? They have a 24 hour helpline on 08082000247.

generally it's about my daughter , but if he seen me in the street he would ask were's my daughter who has her !!! & she would be in school ,he plays tick to me and makes me feel so low