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I love sex

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glitterfairy · 19/04/2004 19:58

Nearly posted this under another name but then thought what the heck! I feel really bad for all who do not like sex or are turned off dh/dp, but have to say that I love sex and enjoy it more and more. Is there anyone out there who also has great sex life as we should celebrate!

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baldrick · 19/04/2004 20:17

love it, said to dh other day want to be doing it until I finally roll over and go to sleep, stp!...better now 35, wasn't so good at 21, carry on shagging

Beetroot · 19/04/2004 20:23

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glitterfairy · 19/04/2004 20:33

Have to say like it more as I grow older and have less inhibitions! As you can see from starting this thread

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fairyfly · 19/04/2004 20:34

sigh

twiglett · 19/04/2004 20:35

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grumpyzebra · 19/04/2004 20:35

LOL, FF. No comment from me on thread topic, though!

jessicarabbit · 19/04/2004 20:42

I love sex too!! Vital to get the odd night away...there is something horny about being in a different bed.... ahh I know what it is - can't change the man but can change the location!

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glitterfairy · 19/04/2004 20:44

Good idea nights away! It helps with the energy levels too!

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Chocol8 · 19/04/2004 20:48

Maybe it's not the change of location, just that you know you can make a mess and don't have to change the sheets???!

kiwisbird · 19/04/2004 20:53

me too
fancy the ass of him and he knows it

emmatmg · 19/04/2004 20:55

Ditto Twiglett

jessicarabbit · 19/04/2004 20:56

And of course if not at home can laze around all morning without doing all the mummy stuff!

gemilou · 19/04/2004 20:59

I love it to, it just gets better and better

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glitterfairy · 19/04/2004 21:10

I enjoy my life altogether more as I get older when babies were little (dd 3 is now 5) I had little energy they seemed to get all mine. Now dh who has been my best friend for 25 years and dh for 14 has had snip we have great fun no hang ups and none of the angst or worries we had when we were teenagers! I feel that things do get better and wanted to say so to others who are going through difficult times because it can get depressing.

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Mavis · 20/04/2004 23:05

Great to hear your sex life is brilliant. Lucky girl...how do you convince a man he would really like to have the snip? I suggested it to mine and he just kinda grunted in a totally give nothing away mode. Now I like sex - but my vibrator also eases the stresses of a busy day in which the world and the dog want an inch of my flesh!! It's kind of lots of the pleasure but without the demands of another being...grown up or just the kids "mauling" me all the time in their loving way. Keep enjoying your sex life gal!
J

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glitterfairy · 21/04/2004 11:57

Mavis always good to explore all sides of relationships! THe doctor persuaded my dh(with a little encouragement from me) and I sat with him to make sure it happened! I was 37 weeks pregnant with third and I think he thought if he argued I would sit on him and squeeze out his last gasp! He was pathetic afterwards though and I wasnt that sympathetic. He got his own back when I was in labour and he casually asked if it was paniful! Always good to intriduce S&M into a marriage.

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dejags · 21/04/2004 12:41

Must confess that we went through a stage where the old sex-life was diabolical (I even posted on here about it)...

Last Christmas DH bought me a lovely gift for each of the twelve days of Xmas - most of them were subtly aimed at improving our sex life (books, massage oil, lovely underwear etc) and boy did it work. Baby No. 2 was conceived just before Xmas and things have gone from strength to strength. I find it amazing because in my last pregnancy he couldn't come near me with a barge pole, this time around I am LOVING it...

So the moral of the story is... even if it seems as if there is no hope there is always a way back to a good sex-life!

sargentmajorBeetroot · 21/04/2004 12:47

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Rhubarb · 21/04/2004 21:00

NOT FAIR!

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glitterfairy · 22/04/2004 16:09

Twelve days of presents that is fantastic! What a brilliant thing to do. I am really impressed. Pregnancy is a funny thing and I am sure that hormones play a huge part in making us feel like sex or not. Women at the mercy of hormones could be a new thread!

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katierocket · 22/04/2004 16:13

dejags - that's the most reassuring thing I've ever heard!

Jaxmum · 22/04/2004 16:31

Dejags - So theres hope for me yet? Ive two under 3 and havent felt like 'it' for ages! Glitterfairy - less inhibitions? / What do you 'do' now that you didnt used to?

noddy5 · 22/04/2004 16:32

I love it when I love it IYKWIM!The rest of the time too tired

Jaxmum · 22/04/2004 16:32

OOPs - didnt mean to pull that face! more of a :/!

dejags · 23/04/2004 11:30

Don't want to sound smug but he is pretty special. I think there is a time and place for everything and all couples go through a rough patch sexually now and then.

It seems that effort, effort, effort is what's required. I had forgotten how fulfilling it was and thanks to DH's efforts those feelings have been rekindled and now instead of it being an effort it feels so much more spontaneous... long may it last..

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