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I love sex

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glitterfairy · 19/04/2004 19:58

Nearly posted this under another name but then thought what the heck! I feel really bad for all who do not like sex or are turned off dh/dp, but have to say that I love sex and enjoy it more and more. Is there anyone out there who also has great sex life as we should celebrate!

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glitterfairy · 23/04/2004 14:53

Ok Jaxmum partly it is that I used to be really worried about how I looked and seemed and could I really say what I wanted. Now I dont worry any more and everyone says I look really well (apart from my mother who says this means I am fat) and happy. I think that as you grow in a relationship and realise that you can do anything you start to feel happier to experiment and even to say that was rubbish didnt like the handcuffs or whatever!

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Jaxmum · 26/04/2004 17:12

Gawd, I used to be well up for it before kids. I so want to be sexy again! Handcuffs? Hmm,not sure how to ask my DH to do that! Any other suggestions?

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glitterfairy · 28/04/2004 23:09

Creams, gels, lotions and liked the nights away ideas crumpled sheets you dont have to do anything with. What made it good before try it again. A little but not too much alcohol is also useful. Nice music, good dinner, going out! try doing different stuff to your normal day evening and sometimes a good row does it! Good way of making up

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reallyembarrassedbut · 29/04/2004 10:27

sulks

how do you persuade someone to want to be sexy again in the first place?

alexsmum · 29/04/2004 23:17

really embarrassed...not sulking is a good start!!! Find some way of just touching your half , say massaging her feet while you watch tv.Or even better turn the telly off and cuddle up on the couch together with a bottle of wine and try and have a giggle about something. Whether its something the kids said or funny things you did in the past, or gossip about mad friends. Get her feeling relaxed. And then build on that intimacy. Make a point of kissing her every day. Make a point of noticing if she looks pretty. Maybe I'm talking rubbish but these are all things that make me want to get intimate with my dh.

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