Bit of a silly one really...TEXTING!!!
I wanted to post after a discussion with my best friend made me simultaneously raise my eyebrows at her and secretly question the strength of my newish relationship!!
Background. She has been with her BF four years. They have has an up and down relationship and at the
Moment are loved up. But...they text constantly! In the morning, on their lunch, all through the evening! When she's round my house or vice versa, it drives me mental!
Me? I've been seeing someone six months and it's going lovely. In the first couple of months we text a lot but now when we don't see each other we tend to just send a one or two a day and maybe talk on the phone for a bit if we get chance.
BF says she would lose heart with this and says the fact the texting habits changed shows we have lost interest in each other!
It made me stop and think. It is more him that stopped. He's very busy at work and I wouldn't really want to bug him all day long! but I honestly don't think we have any issues. It's really lovely and we communicate really well when we see each ither and talk things through whereas she even conducts her disagreements with her BF via text.
So....the question is...do you think texting habits changes as the relationship progresses? Is it important it doesn't change? What happened in your relationship?
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Texting in a relationship
Justalovemachine · 07/01/2015 17:17
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