I think these discussion forums are a great thing (I wish I had talked to someone about it all too) but I don't think they accurately represent the multitude of factors and problems that exist within relationships. Contributors only get to see a tiny part of the problem from one angle. If they could see the whole picture and see it from a number of angles, their views/advice would likely be very different at times.
Yes, but your wife posted about how things look from her point of view. That is entirely valid and relevant whether you agree with it or not.
She has an opinion on what has happened, why and how she feels about it which she is entitled to express here without being hindered by counter-arguments.
Leave her thread alone and go and start one of your own if you want to give your 'side' of the story.
I knew about this thread as she told me. And I also checked that it was appropriate for me to comment within the mumsnet guidelines too, which it is. I think it's really healthy to share views. I was simply making a positive statement about my wife and our relationship now - we have worked on it and we are stronger for it. And we are excitedly preparing for our son to arrive in May.
The irony of this post is that we only have your word for it. For all we know your wife may be very unhappy and you may be controlling and abusing her by literally speaking for her.
And we don't need a 'happy ending' to tie up a loose thread. Life is not like that. It may not be against talk guidelines to post on her thread but it does smack of trying to restrict her freedom and silence her voice.
OP if you can read this, there is a lot of help out there if you need it.