How and when do i move on?
Now i know it all takes time. We were together 17 years and have 2 dc under 5 together (youngest 18 months and i think the affair has been going on for all that time). He has given up everything for this...bitch (who i know btw) despite the fact we have gone through hell as a family the last couple of years (bereavement, severly ill dc, critically ill and life changing events for him too).
I feel lonely already. I am at the angry stage but i think I've accepted that it is over.
I'm not expecting you to say go and start looking for someone else now. I get i need to spend time on my own with dc and come to terms with things.
But i also feel like i need to know that there is the possibility that i can find someone. That i can attract someone.
I need a vague timeframe as to when i can try dating (i have never dated) and just enjoy any attention really.
And how the hell do i go about that?! I work full time and look after 2 small dcs. At the moment he sees them once a week. I feel completely clueless.
Oh. It may be in my head but i have been trying to think of anyone male who is single in my vague age bracket and can think of no one at all! Where are these single men anway?! I am early 30s and feel like he has had my best years 