urgh

[CheeseBored]

Had been seeing someone for the last monty. REALLY liked him a lot, felt lots of connection.

He didn't though and has dumped me for 'lack of spark' which is fair enough. Has now suggested meeting over the weekend, which I don't want to do - too hard.

How can I respond to this with confidence, panache and keeping the ball firmly in my court?

So bloody sad.

why are you contradicting yourself ?

has he told you will ask you again and you will roll over and simper "yes pleeeease, or do you think you might go with your begging bowl for a few shitty crumbs of his half hearted attention

get some backbone, fgs

Hi hun, like others have said just say no thank you! It will do more harm than good in the long run if you have feelings for him, they will always be that bit of hope there on your part no matter how hard you try convince yourself you can be just friends.

His reasons for wanting to meet you could be genuine that he wants to stay friends but unless he didnt know your feelings for him think its a bit like rubbing salt in the wound a bit