Hiya. I am a lurker on this board, never really post except for once about my new boyfriend. Well it has all turned to shit big time.
Cutting a long story short; we have been out for a drink at the local. I end up in the loos talking to an old friend I haven't seen in a while. He comes into the lady's toilets twice checking for me. He seemed annoyed the first time, angry the second.
I come out, go out with him whilst he has a smoke and he goes on about me annoying him for takig a while in the loos because doesn't know if I am cheating on him or not. BIG red flag I know, I have been in 2 abusive relationships prior to him.
We come home, have sex then talk and that's when it becomes sinister. I can't describe his behaviour. He was just odd and slightly aggressive. I told him I needed to take my contact lenses out. He then put his hand over my nose and mouth and said 'how do you like this?' I said no I don't, asked why are you doing this. I said again about removing the lenses and hr did the samr again. 'How about this?' He said. I said no it scares me.
Then he said he loved me and asked if I watched Emmerdale
i said no. He said 'well someone's just killed Declan and I dreamt I killed you the other night'. I asked 'why are you saying this? You are frightening me' he just said it again and ignored me. After a few minutes he was asleep. I got up and rang the police, non-emergency. They 20 minutes since removed him from my home. He has since rang saying he does not remember a thing.
I'm utterly confused. I am scared. I feel absolutely stupid for ringing the police. Was this the right thing to do?
I don't even know the aim of this post. I just feel bewildered by it all I need to see if I was right or just over-reacting?
I am sorry for the bad grammar and length of the post. I am sorry if I am being ridiculous. Thanks in advance.