I need some perspective on this. It's not major but it's on my mind. Out with DP the other night at a gig with his brother and sil. I've met them twice before both times in pubs so not had chance to properly talk. They seem nice and I'm nice, know how to interact although I'm not very 'forward' and sometime find it difficult to open up, start an animated conversation but once it's started I join in well. I have opinions but I'm not confrontational. While I was waiting for a drink his Sil came over, we started talking and although it was hard due to music I thought we had a good conversation. We talked about jobs, I talked about what I liked about my job, what I didn't. Asked her about hers, said how skilled her line of work was. We talked about children and how pressurised they may feel and it seemed ok. Fast forward a few minutes and I was standing outside with DP. Out of nowhere he said 'you didn't upset (name) did you?' I was more than taken back and filled with annoyance and then worry as to whether I had said something inadvertent to upset her. I replied that to my knowledge I didn't but I'm so different and relatively new to meeting them so I've no idea what is and what isn't off bounds. It was an end to an evening that was awkward anyway as I didn't know a sole and the place had loads of his friends in it.
Am I being over sensitive? My DP is always very worried about what people think of him, me less so but now I'm worried his sister in law might say negative things to DP which will confirm his suspicion that upset her!