Readers' Wives type online porn & chat

[WitchWay]

Anyone know of such a website or organisation with the initials MS?

Just gathering information.

But you don't want it to be?

Obviously he wants it to be swept under the carpet but he doesn't get to chose-it's up to you if you decide to move on.

I guess it's something that some could get over but it would need an frank and open conversation. OP, surely you know you are at least more than this?!

I hope you are ok. I came on for an update and I really hope for your sake that this didn't end with that breezy phone call of his!

You don't have to STFU about it if you don't want to

Why take your cue from him ? Of course he wants it swept under the carpet. He is bang to rights for being a deceitful piece of shit.

He said he was upset & hurt by my reaction - I threw out the anniversary flowers after cutting off their heads - I said he was upset he'd been found out

He said I was treating him like a 3yo - I said I didn't understand why he was so fascinated by porn & found the whole thing humiliating & that it explained why he pesters me to shave off my pubes (I prefer trimmed but present)

He said he was annoyed I'd gone snooping - I said I'd never have considered snooping if I hadn't found stuff by accident

He accused me of having an affair with someone at the choir I joined recently - I said come to choir & see the ranks of mainly geriatric mostly women

He said he bet I had all sorts of stuff hidden on my computer - I said take it & look - there is nothing incriminating either obvious or hidden

Ok, so basically he doesn't want to take responsibility for what he's done but just wants to bleat on about made up things about you until you get fed up trying to talk to him.

Really, just bin this one. You are worth more than this.

He also said he was very sorry he'd upset me, he'd been an idiot, upsetting me wasn't his intention, he loves me very much, thinks I'm gorgeous (I am, natch ) & doesn't want to split up over something so ridiculous.

We shall see.

Would he think it was ridiculous if you were swopping sexy messages and pics with someone online?

I asked him exactly that - he didn't really have an answer

He doesn't want to split up but he doesn't want to be exclusive either. Are you happy to have an open relationship OP, because that's what he's got.

Classic deflection, all of it

and you are bamboozled by it

you have the evidence of your very eyes...if you don't feel you can act on that, then you might as well give him that green card to go dipping his wick in whatever sleazy situations he wants to create for himself

just remember to use barrier protection when you sleep with him, won't you

Classic deflection, all of it

That was my thought.

There has always been porn & he has tried to get me interested in swinging

He sounds foul.