Readers' Wives type online porn & chat

[WitchWay]

Anyone know of such a website or organisation with the initials MS?

Just gathering information.

Whether you want to stay with him or not, you have to make him realise what he's risked and let him experience the loss.

It occurred to me I might know his email password - hasn't changed it for years & years - I was right, so I've checked his account & he hasn't looked yet. He has taken his iPad away with him but not the Mac - hmmm

Ho ho, so we now have the "how did that happen? I don't remember anything about it? I don't want some silly girl?" texts flooding in as he has obviously checked his email

Maybe now you have something to initiate you bringing up all of your feelings, once you've done that, maybe you'll realise what you want from this.

Yes. I have discovered MS is Malibu Strings, some American porny site. Reckons he has no recollection of emailing her or saving the messages - in a special folder FFS - which I don't believe. I don't think he's been having an affair. I think he's been an idiot.

Well he is lying to you, that much you do know. That folder didn't create itself. How stupid does he think you are. That would make me very angry.

I am furious. We spent a long time texting last night & I actually said the folder couldn't have created itself & that I might be a fool, but I certainly wasn't stupid.

More annoyingly the messages were both "Re" a previous message, meaning that there was more dialogue from previously that I haven't seen.

When is he back OP? Have you decided what happens next?

Back tomorrow evening. I have found the woman on Malibu Strings - it's a bikini company that puts up pictures of people wearing their stuff in home made type sexy holiday snaps Punters can then email the (amateur) models directly

I looked for her name & email & it is the same email as on DH's account. I don't know whether he asked her for more personal snaps or whether she offered. Pretty pathetic really. What she sent to him were dreadful selfies with added tits & arse & cheap-looking frilly undies I presume she has pictures of his cock.

I don't know what will happen yet.

He reckons he can't remember any of it & must have been drunk. Some messages were written in the small hours so yes, he might have been drinking, but others were sent by him in the afternoon.

I'd be less cross if he just admitted it properly, instead of all this vagueness

I couldn't tolerate this pretend memory-loss. What a shit. I'd tell him to sling his hook until he was ready to tell me the truth.

What is to "admit" ?

You have all the evidence on front of your eyes

I could never look past this but the fact he's pretending he doesn't even remember! Fuck me, he is something!

I'm so sorry you have found this out. Remember though, you were looking for that way out. That folder contains a very big arrow pointing out of a life with this lying twat!

*in

Have you told him that?

If he lies to you when you have all the evidence right in front of yougod knows what else he lies about. Sti checks all round I think. Sorry you're going through this x

I went looking on his laptop for more evidence - nothing I could find to suggest he has been emailing anyone or active in chat rooms but an absolute ton of internet links to porn videos. Hardcore, adult, hetero, fortunately I don't mind his looking at porn really, but the whole thing is so pathetic & humiliating.

Fortunately as in thank god not children or animals

When you are calling it fortunate that he is looking at hardcore porn and cheating on you, you really are scraping the bottom of the barrel to find something positive about your relationship.

He doesn't like women much does he. You included. Not a good role model as a father either

Is he back yet?

...sorry, posted too soon.

You have all the evidence you need. Now I would use your time to get your paperwork in order, take copies of anything he may hide when he's back, life insurance documents, bank statements, P45 etc.

Don't look anymore at what he's been ogling, you'll only hurt yourself. Get yourself organised now.

Damnit - I meant P60

Thanks for the advice. He'll be back later this evening - nice breezy phone call earlier as if it's already ancient history

I guess this is getting swept under the carpet?

Yes - looks like it

What happened when he got back OP?