Midnight Handholding needed - DH has just told me about affair

[SeaMeadows]

Title says it all, really.

DH has just told me he's been having an affair with a colleague.

Can't sleep, need a bit of handholding from you ladies who have once again been proved right.

You sound calm and strong. And it's good that you have supportive friends, you'll get through this and your life will be even better for it.

What an absolute fucker though (him, not you)... Better to not have somebody in your life who is ok with hurting you. Knob.

Great plan to walk to Santiago, what an amazing thing to do! I'd love to do that! You should write a bucket list of things you want to do now that you don't have that deceitful prick in your life... Maybe still include the mad axe-wielding thing

These things take time but you really will feel happy again.

Just checking in to send you some good vibes for today.

I agree with tony you sound strong - but do keep in mind it's ok not to feel strong. People will always be here to listen when you're feeling rotten or needing more hand holding.

Thank you so much. I think you're right, better to not have someone in your life who is happy with hurting you. But on the other hand, I still love him :(

Well, of course I do. Have known about this for slightly over 24 hours.