I have been with my BF for over a year and he has not told his ex or children that he is seeing someone. Divorce has not been started (they separated about 18months before we met) and his current account is still in joint names , he uses it as his sole current account but every now and again ex takes some money from it.
I feel like I am wasting my time here and more like his mistress rather than his girlfriend. Anyway not too sure why I am posting just getting increasingly fed up with the situation which has been highlighted by me doing him a favour last week - I lent him my car as his was off the road, to take his youngest children on a holiday, I walked, then took 2 trains to get to the holiday town, he picked me up from train station, drove to the camp site, he got out at entrance and I drove home (I needed my car back,this took me nearly 5 hours).
I didn't expect to see his daughters but the whole thing just made me feel upset and that he is always going to keep me as some (dirty) secret.