What the actual fuck is wrong with me?

[Mumof3xox]

"Dp" and I have been together 7.5 years. We have 3dc. We are due to be married in a years time.

Yet he still regresses every so often into an immature selfish little shit

Here I was thinking he has finally got past the going out and fucking us off as it hadn't happened for a while

But no. Here I am again. Absolutely livid and trying not to get upset infront of my dc

I just need to fuck him off perminantly don't I

Funny thing is, I don't want to hurt him!

Will his parents tell him off for his behaviour

No chance tbh.

And they will be disapproving, but he won't care.

Well, I'm glad you're angry instead of sobbing while he swans around.

Do you think you will boot him out this time?

I hope I have the strength to do so

Why won't he? Is that because you won't let him or because he doesn't want to

He won't want too

He will make plans to do stuff

It will take a couple of days before he starts trying to suck up

It will take you less than a couple of days to pack his shit up in bin-bags and leave it all on the doorstep. Do it.

Well if he doesn't want to see them on your terms don't let him on his terms. Tell the kids he's working away just now. Tell him he can take them for a sat or sun and a couple of hours during the week after work or whatever.

Don't talk to him about anything else other than contact/maintenance/. Give him nothing. Don't show your bothered. I wouldn't let him in the house to see them either. If you feel you need to then you should go out so he has them on his own.

Do not marry this guy, it will lead to a life of misery for you and your children

Hope you're feeling ok tonight. What a bloody shirt he is!

Shirt :)
Hahaha!!

It is great that you aren't financially dependent on him This should be taught in schools! very good point!!

He is bloody useless with money if I was dependent on him the cupboards would be bare