DP and I have been together 3.5 years, everything was great at first, both really happy etc etc etc. When we moved in together, our sex life took a turn for the worse and weeks started to pass, then a month, a few months and we're now on 10 months! He just isn't interested at all! I on the other hand am like at dog on heat!
He's not very physically intimate at all, hardly cuddles me, we've not kissed properly since the last time we had sex. I'm a very physical person and crave nothing more than even just a random cuddle. Counselling has been mentioned at few times in he past, but he isn't the sort to talk and tbh I'd be mortified. I just don't know what to do about it any more.
I've tried talking to him, he says sex is hardly appealing when I'm constantly grumpy - hardly a surprise I find it hard to be happy really! I've kind of accepted for a while that it's just the way our relationship is, but I don't know how much longer I can do it :(
Since we got together, I've lost about 4 stone and have started taking a bigger interest in clothes/hair/make up, which at first was partly to do with trying to get him to want me more, but clearly didn't work!
It's just weighing on my mind so much at the moment, I really want things to work between us, but it's soul destroying!
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AllFurCoat · 06/08/2014 17:15
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