Monday morning oral sex survey

[EdwiniasRevenge]

Just 2 questions.

Not phrased very well I'm afraid. Just trying to guage -from a woman's POV what is the 'normal' spread of responses after a heated debate last night (and yes I know that doesn't matter what everyone else does its what you feel comfortable that counts etc. This is purely to prove a point)

When giving oral sex to a man where do you "stop"
a) I don't give oral sex
b) I don't/won't allow a man to cum in my mouth
c) spit
d) swallow

How do you make your boundaries clear to your OH?

D usually but any sort of pressure would result in A. Discussion on what you/ he likes is fine, comments of doing it 'wrong' are not!

I don't do it at all. I don't like it, it hurts my neck and semen makes me heave. After a lifetime of abusive relationships, I'm much better at setting boundaries.

B. Tried C and D, didn't like it, no intention of ever doing it again. DH knows that and isn't fussed. Like has been said, if he gets B, he's happy!

Why shouldn't you tell him about something you don't want to do in bed? What's his issue with you doing so?