Separated from husband for 6 months (second separation in 5 years – first for 2 years – 20 years together – all finances split – his grown up children) Then nearly 6 months of new intense relationship – both declared love for each other; felt she really understood me and really felt was the future; however my ex started to be back in contact and then told me he loved me when I asked for a divorce.
I have finished it with BF by text and spoke briefly with him on the phone when he rang. Didn’t tell her why. He wanted to meet to discuss I refused. He sent me a couple of texts asking me to talk. I refused and got cross. He messaged my friend asking her to help get me to talk – she ignored.
His teenage children with whom I had a good relationship text me, said they were really sad and questioned why I was doing it. I ignored. He came round a couple days later and knocked but I didn’t answer so he dropped a note through. I text him on the Monday and said was going back to my ex. He text back - no row just comments about being sure before I jumped given the problems of the past. Found out on the weds he had been to see my mum who he got on really well with– was furious – rang him and let rip. Called him some horrible names – didn’t give him any opportunity to talk. He text me asking me not to threaten him and explaining why he had done it. He asked me to leave him alone. I didn’t respond. Received email from his eldest son asking me to show him some respect by having a face to face conversation and saying it seems my ex just jealous. I ignored.
Now a week later BF has text me asking to meet to have the conversation he wanted me to have originally.