I have been with OH near to five years now, I have a 6 year old son from a previous relationship. Can someone please tell me if I am just going through a faze of paranoia. Recently OH hasn't been answering my calls whilst he is out or returning them which is very unusual. When he come in last night I confronted him about it, his reply was "Well I'm home now, what was wrong?" And for the past 3 nights he hasn't been coming to bed with me at night he has been staying in the living room watching television until he falls asleep on the sofa. Things like this makes me feel as if he doesn't find me attractive anymore and doesn't want to be with me.
Also my son hasn't got a father, last month we spoke about having a child together (which is something the both of us would like to happen) he also said that he wants to be a father to my son and it would be a good idea if I changed his surname to his, so basically he wants to claim him as his own, I don't know if this would be a good idea or not, as DS knows that OH isn't his father.
Now I am really starting to question my relationship, how can I have another baby with someone I am finding hard to trust at the moment? There are a lot of other things that have happened which are raising my suspicions but I don't know whether it is me being paranoid or not.