For those who don't know back story- I found out 2 months ago about OW and kicked him out. Afterwards I did give him the opportunity to come back, we had a couple of weeks of him having 'space' to figure it out but ultimately he is now with her. He told me recently they are planning to move to London together (about 3-4 hours drive away)
Two things have now really pissed me off. I found out through mutual friends he has taken her to stay with his parents and also his sister. Then, while he was here seeing the kids he left his phone lying around. I saw messages to the OW basically gushing about how wonderful his mum thinks she is. And that his mum agrees it is 'time for Avocado to learn to stand on her own two feet' to which OW replied 'I wholeheartedly agree'. There were other texts between him and OW basically painting me as some needy vulnerable little sap who needed to 'learn to be independent'
I am just so angry, firstly that the inlaws, and his sister, who I have been confiding in a lot, should accept her so readily and secondly that he is giving off this impression of me as some vulnerable little woman who has been 'depending' on him.for too long. I am.the mother of his children, we were together for 15 years and I have sacrificed my career and taken various underpaid part time jobs for the sake.of the family..It feels.like he is rewriting history and they are all going along with it. He left me alone,.jobless, in a rented house in a new area and he wants to fuck off to London and people talk about it being good for me to stand on my own two feet?! What about his fucking responsibilities to the children? I can't understand why everyone seems to be ok with it! In the beginning his mum was texting and calling me a lot but strangely she has stopped now.
And yes for the record I am.standing on my own two feet and I have already got myself a job and will be supporting the children on my own. No fucking thanks to him.
I am.just so angry 