If someone makes a serious mistake in life..

[babyinmyarms]

Does it define that person forevermore even if they have moved on from that mistake years ago?

Should they be allowed to forget it or must they be made to always hang their head in shame?

Just wondering.

Look, we've all mistakes. If this woman can't comprehend that and look beyond your past mistake/s, then I say she has the emotional intelligence of an amoeba.

You need to stand up to her. Can you get your ex to try organise contact? She needs to realise it's not right to use her child as a weapon.

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I agree it's up to your ex to facilitate relationships between his children.

What is his view on this matter? Does it suit him to keep you all apart? I suspect it does. Two failed relationships with DC happens, of course it does, but if everything is going through him as a conduit I'd be suspicious that on one is hearing the full story.

Good point kalidanger.... is the OP getting these threats first hand or is it a second-hand excuse from the ex why her DD can't spend time with his other DCs?