How to crack a passcode on his mobile?

[AmeliaAmelia]

Pathetic... I know... But he has got 2 mobiles and one of them got passcode.... Wondering if maybe there is my proof of him cheating... :(

Sorry for bad posts, phone is crazy!

My dp put a password on his phone. I asked him about it and he did it because I had sent him a topless pic and he didn't want dd to pick up phone. I said I wasn't comfortable with it do he removed it. And the picture! Maybe your dh has the passcode because there is work stuff on thete that is private. Ask him if he has nothing to hide he will tell you the code and let yoh look on the phone.

Oh now rtft sorry op

Can you see his statements as PP said?

Oh dear, you poor thing
Sounds truly horrific. I imagine you feel so low. It's not you, it's him and I hope you know that. You're not a hopeless romantic to want affection. I know rejection stings like a knife wound. Just because he's not hVing sex with you, doesn't mean he's cheating. Not does a visit to Ashley's website. I often look stuff up online that I have no interest in, just to gain knowledge.

That being said, it does sound like you need to talk. You deserve to be happier than this. Regardless of whether he's actually cheating

HI op, can I just add when I have work mobile I am forced by IT to have a passcode on it. It;s normally 1234 or 0000. I hate having them, but it's a security thing. I hope things get better for you. I do know how you're feeling right now x

Agree that you won't get solace from whatever you find. I was in labour when I found my exp's phone going off with messages from his dad about how they both didn't like me and exp was 'playing nice' which just really hurt. I hadn't ever met his father either! The fact he had been messaging like this so close to the birth of his first child while telling me he loved me etc etc was not at all helpful, esp in labour! I did look though as I also had that need to know. I hated feeling that I was bad'thinking' him for no reason. There was a reason and it was his attitude and bitching behind my back! It didn't change much other than I knew why I felt he wasn't all in - he wasn't.

He also used to frequent strip clubs through work and look at porn. He even got a weird fb msg from a girl asking him over for Christmas lunch when we were together as he hadn't actually told her he had a g.f and baby! It was painful to see him deny us so easily to almost everyone but in the end no amount of snooping/pleading or over-thinking helped. Getting rid of the twat did though

Lion

Lioninthedun - thats awful... Woman is so fragile and sensitive before and after birth! I feel so sorry for u - but glad u got rid of that idiot!

It's fine - I look back at it all and wonder what the hell I thought I saw in him to be honest. It's amazing how much you can ignore, or try to, for the father of your child. It is useful for sites like MN though, as he was so completely out of this world (eg: we got a fine from DVLA sent to my house for hundreds of pounds because he just left a car in a carpark and had since registered his passport at my address so DVLA could find him! He thought it was funny and couldn't see this isn't what a normal adult would do. Ignored the fact I had just given birth and didn't want bailiffs at my house. Made out I was the mental one for being worried etc etc.).
Really, you will be able to look back on this and see what a lucky escape you had. No one needs to live their lives looking over their shoulder and wondering what the person saying they love them is going to do to them next.

Its not easy to leave... Not when u have children together... Especially without "proper" reason...

Yes, I understand. Especially if they have been trying to convince you you are nuts . I am not proud that I looked, but am glad I did as I got to confront him with proof, rather than allowing him to gaslight.

This thread is very inpirational for me...
So many amazing women...
Thank you all so much!

Things r not great between us, we dont have sex, he is using porn, googling strip clubs and ashleymadison....
Amelia ^^ are all your proper reasons.

You don't need proof.

You don't need to prove this to him.

He may deny deny deny but he actually knows what his own actions are. You don't need to prove anything to anyone to leave. You can just choose to end the relationship.

Sorry guys.. for those of you who wanted to know about the app it's called Lookout - it has a green and black logo on the appstore thingy. It's just like a firewall but if someone tries to access your phone with the wrong code more than I think 5 times then it takes a photo of them and emails it to you.

Watch him put it in, even if you only see the first 2 numbers remember them and then watch again next Time for the others .. Also men tend to have the same password for everything birth dates / pin codes so if u know his passwords to anything else they may be the same for phone password. Or have your phone battery die and ask him if u can borrow his phone to make a call and just pick it up and say politely what's the password? If he won't tell you say why he is your husband has he got something to hide? He will obviously not want u to think he has anything to hide so will tell u and then quickly go through it then whilst pretending to put in phone number ? I've done that before . Hope u find something that helps x

Thanks Crispy.

sorry but i think you are all crackers, breaking into phones, creeping around its all just so desperate.

Tell him you want to look at his phone, tell him why, if you find something fair enough deal with that, if you don't then you both need a long long talk.