Dh off to a festival with a Female friend......

[Adorabelle]

leaving at 5am today. She's a longstanding friend
with a fella but has always been pretty honest
that she had a Huge crush on him when we got together 4 years ago, & for quite a while after.

Her dp is an extremely close friend of my dh & I know for certain dh would never cheat with this
woman. So the fuck am I so tearful & angry?

Sat here bawling, am not given to tears usually, but feel horrid.

Do not want to tell him he cannot go as he never goes out anywhere. Cash is very tight, dh doing phd & i'm a sahm. She gave him the ticket for free cos her dp wouldn't go, but all along her dp said he wasn't going.

Any advice most welcome, Please just tell me to get a grip & stop being pathetic

Mine does this sort of thing all the time

He has loads of women friends and half of them really fancy him

I do also go out with male friends occasionally - although most of them are gay, dammit

I trust him but I still have to drink a bottle of wine when he is off with his ladeez

I'd recommend that route

I trust him 100%. But when you're in such a
buzzing atmosphere, like a festival, & maybe you are a wee bit intoxicated & you have an obsessive
woman trying to lead you astray......

For fucks sake, i'm beginning to piss meself off
now He won't stray I know that so I need to pour that wine & get bargain hunting

Absolutely

I would shag her brains out

Dh is more moral than me though

lol morningpaper

I'm sure your morals are very high & you are just
being modest & a wee bit provocative

ive just read this whole thing and i think you must be an angel or a saint or something!
i find myself annoyed at ur insensitive-sounding dh for putting you through this atll.i dont think men realise when women are being manipulative cows,they tend to see everything in black and white,so i think good on you for trusting him but maybe u should let him know calmly at a later date how it made u feel so it doesnt happen again.
take it from a possessive jealous paranoid idiot,you are a wonderful human being and i hope ur dh appreciates you and the wonderful relationship you have

Thanks diva for working your own paranoia out on a person feeling a bit vulnerable right now.

She is doing fine with a wee drop of white and ebay.

hurray for wine and eBay!!

i went to reading about 8 years ago with my brother, and i didn't think it was all that. to be fair, i broke my leg and didn't realise for 2 days cause i was so pissed/stoned/err.....other things i'm 5 months pregnant at the moment, so can't do any of those things.......guess that'll be me off to eBay too then.

you'll be fine hun......you seem like a lovely, rational person. your DH is a lucky lucky man, and the Wicked Witch doesn't stand a chance!! hehe.......

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im sorry if that sounded bad in any way,i didnt mean it to,quite the opposite.

Sorry D. for being a bit sharp. She is not being a saint at all. She is being civilised, and her dh will undoubtedly know what sacrifice she has made, yes?

Adorabelle, I'd say you have all the reason to feel upset. Like other said ( I did not real the entire thread), you should let him know that you are upset so he'd make up for you. Mine one stopped seeing most of his female friends since we start to going out, he'd think I would not be happy for his female friend although I told him I don't mind (perhaps I would if he does see them, not even going away for that long). I am upset (or miss him really) even he off with his mates for a day or so... I am not a good example but just to show how normally that you feel upset.
Hope you feel much better when he returns and be ultra nice to you

no no no

I think you were right when you said:

"I did consider the tantrum route but he still might have gone & his last memory of me would be of a mad woman screaming like a banshee."

Well my head is about as Big as a house

All these fabulous posts bout my being so generous, even 'saint like'.

It didn't even enter my head to tell him that he couldn't go. & now I am quite pleased that he
has gone. It'll show him how much I love & trust him, & will also settle my insecurities bout the WWofW

Unless that is he comes back & tells me that he is leaving me & dd for said Witch.....

Only kidding

Feeling any better?
I bet he's spent the whole time wishing you were there instead of witchlady.

Feeling alot better now dh is home

He's still pretty tired (too much moshing) so am
not going to try & talk about how i've been feeling.

Have decided that I won't let out all the emotions I was feeling y'day to him. But one things for sure if WWofW has any other 'spare'
tickets going begging she better not ask my bloody dh to go with her!