Hi everyone new on here but wanted your opinions. So been with dh for 13 years, we have 3 dc aged 8, 6 and 8 months. Recently he has been texting a girl from work a lot and he has been going out after work a lot more, anyway I'm not proud of this but I looked at his phone whilst he was in the bath (was surprised he didn't take it in with him really as he never usually lets it out of his sight) anyway I read some of their text conversations and while there was nothing ott they were very familiar, calling each other nicknames and in one she put "can't wait for London" I know they went to a conference together down there but why "couldn't she wait?" Also there was one of her replying to him with "I'm not sure hot lips will catch on" (there wasn't one from him so I don't know if he deleted it or if he called her that earlier in the evening as they were on yet another drink after work) they are going out tonight and he was going to stay over and crash at one of the guys from work's house but then he said he'd booked a hotel and one of the texts from her was "I've had an idea" and then there was a link to a laterooms hotel site. I know I may not have been as attentive to him recently what with being pregnant and then dealing with a colicky baby I have been so tired we have only had sex a handful of times since dd was born. But should I be worried or Is this just a friendship that I am overreacting to?