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Help with text to finally end relationship please?

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endlessdrudgery · 01/04/2014 20:00

I am feeling very angry, hurt and let down. Have just written a fantasy text to my stbxp. Does the following seem a little harsh? Opinions and suggestions please! (sort of lightheartedish)

'Ok so now I get it - you don't actually give a toss about me. It's what I suspected but today has confirmed all my doubts. Or perhaps this is my 'punishment' for not finding the crumbs of affection you give me enough? Even after everything you couldn't even bring yourself to say 'I love you' last night. Don't bother contacting me again (not that you would bother). I can do so much better, you sad emotionally stunted loser.'

If you ever get the chance to have a relationship again I would suggest;
A: The occasional compliment
B: Expressing some affection
C: Some foreplay

OP posts:
AnyFucker · 01/04/2014 21:14

that's a good 'un

endlessdrudgery · 01/04/2014 21:27

Exactly - I don't want to be persuaded out of it any more. So it's either a short emotionless text or a call tomorrow when I'm feeling calmer. Text's are sometimes appropriate I think.

OP posts:
aegeansky · 01/04/2014 21:37

I'd go with text. It's too easy to get drawn in to a discussion or agree to a meeting over the phone!

ProlificPenguin · 01/04/2014 21:43

Yes to text or have you a phone network where you can use your VM to leave him a vm without it ringing?

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