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How long does the lust-crazed part of a new relationship last?

33 replies

DoorToDecember · 30/03/2014 11:17

It's been 7.5 months and I still crave him like mad. Everything feels so lovely and intense, I don't want this stage to stop! Blush

So, MN, how long does this part last?

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DoorToDecember · 30/03/2014 12:08

Bump :-)

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DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 30/03/2014 12:20

8 months.

Pleasejustgo · 30/03/2014 12:33

Yes 8 months.

UncrushedParsley · 30/03/2014 12:36

Well, I'm 10 months in, and still going strong :). Don't expect it to be as intense after probably, the first year, but different iuswim.

DownstairsMixUp · 30/03/2014 12:38

About a year.

MirandaWest · 30/03/2014 12:56

I'm nearly 2 years in and get total lust feelings lasting a few days at a time quite often. Think the continuous feeling has probably worn off now though Grin

JohnFarleysRuskin · 30/03/2014 13:27

Until you get pregnant ;)

CogitoErgoSometimes · 30/03/2014 13:40

I've been seeing someone on and off for years and we're still in the lust phase. :) I think the 'on and off' bit definitely helps keep things lively.... 'absence makes the heart grow fonder' but 'familiarity breeds contempt'.

PPPpickUPaPenguin · 30/03/2014 13:41

About two or three years.

Fairylea · 30/03/2014 13:43

Until you live together.

LackaDAISYcal · 30/03/2014 13:43

90 days!

There is an old wisdom that says if you put a penny in a jar every time you get jiggy in the first three months, and take one out every time you get jiggy after the first three months, you will still have pennies in the jar after your first year!

Abbykins1 · 30/03/2014 13:50

About three and a half weeks left.

TDada · 30/03/2014 14:27

until you have children? And then priorities naturally change to practical things like survival and sleep.

NearTheWindymill · 30/03/2014 14:32

There's a very old saying (from the days when people waited to be married) that said if you put a penny in a jar every time you have sex during the first year of marriage and take a penny out every time after the first year, you will never empty the jar Wink

susiedaisy · 30/03/2014 14:33

Apparently it's around 18 months if you believe some articles.

Ledkr · 30/03/2014 14:36

I think it's around 18 months.
I was glad when it ended as I felt sick sometimes and anxious I'd never cope if it went wrong.
Been 7 yrs now but I still feel lustful quite often

MirandaWest · 30/03/2014 14:47

Hmm am still having sex as much as in the first 3 months which is good :)

I think when we do live together it will change things although we won't be having children together so at least that part won't happen Grin

TDada · 30/03/2014 18:06

I like the old saying NearTheWindyMill

MrsBungle · 30/03/2014 18:08

I'd say about 18 months.

storynanny · 30/03/2014 18:11

Nearthewindmill, the version of that I know is that if you put a marble in a jar every time in the first 6 months, then take one out every time after that, the jar will never ever be empty!

GarlicMarchHare · 30/03/2014 18:31

In my experience - Anything from 40 minutes to 6 years.

Actually, the lust never did wear off for XH2 and me, we just had to face the fact you can't make a relationship out of body parts. I might have noticed what a bastard he was, if I hadn't let my vagina do the thinking Blush

DoorToDecember · 30/03/2014 18:53

FairyLea Until you live together

Hahaha I hope this isn't true!

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Joysmum · 30/03/2014 21:40

It's gone in cycles for us. We've been together 20 years and are nearly 2 years into the latest cycle of lust Grin

wallaby73 · 31/03/2014 15:20

I second cogito....i've been on/off for nearly 3 years.....still almost illegally lusty Shock i will never live with him tho....

BitOutOfPractice · 31/03/2014 15:26

I'm 11 months and 2 days in and we are still at it like knives Grin

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