For your sex life to die down a bit when you have children/have been together a long time?
Lately, the past two months or so we've hardly had sex, ds is 5 now so it can be difficult.
We were having sex two or three times a week at least, about two years ago ds walked in on us one early morning, I was absolutely mortified. He was only 3 so I'm hoping he will never remember. But I can't relax the same way.
I've asked dp to put a lock on the bedroom door over and over but he hasn't done anything about it.
We're always knackered last thing at night and I've been bleeding really heavily lately not on my totm (think I may have had a very early miscarriage). So that hasn't helped either.
Dp likes to come onto me weekend mornings when ds is downstairs watching TV but I just don't think that this is right.
I've suggested we have a few nice nights when ds is in bed, light a couple of candles, or have a film night, which might instigate something in the early evening, but he shows no interest.
I've suggested we go out and ds stay at families house, but he's not interested. I've begged him to surprise me one afternoon even with just a drive out, go for a walk, picnic in the car, we've enough people who'd gave ds for a few hours, but he's never done it. I've asked him to book a day off work while ds is at school and we will stay in bed all day, again I'm met with nothing.
Yet he is accusing me of not loving him, it must be that I don't fancy him, our relationship is dead because we don't have sex.
It's only been like this a couple of months and we did actually have sex this morning which I instigated, as we were up so early.
He's being unfair right?