DP always deletes browsing history from phone and ipad.

[lovingsunshine]

I'm suspicious!

What other reason could there be other than him getting up to something / someone behind my back?

He has form, but I thought he had changed.

If I asked him he would never in a million years confess unless i had cold hard proof and even then he would try to deny it.

Am I right to assume the worst or could there be an innocent explanation?

I delete the history too. I have nothing to hide I just tend to think of it as private.

As others have said, you don't need "evidence" - although in my book what you already have is sufficient argument for you to end the relationship. You don't actually have to give an argument.

His actions have resulted in you not trusting him, so the relationship is over.

Further explanation doesn't need to be offered really.

He will deny, minimise, try to hit the re set button and make you feel like you are the unreasonable one. Do you have DC? Can you just leave?

I knew before confronting him that he would only ever deny it. I told him it just makes me feel even worse.

We do have a DD.

Can I leave? Essentially yes. It will be difficult in terms of everything that we did together (bringing up a child and running a business) i will have to now do alone.

But I have enough money to keep me going for a few months at least.

Actually not 'essentially yes' - yes I can leave the relationship and I will.

I could also leave the house we share - but I haven't made my mind up yet whether I will insist he goes instead. Not sure I want to stay in a house that we supposedly created a home together in when it was all a big lie.

I am sorry, love. A leopard and it's spots eh ? You may not have had sex for a year but it's likely he has

Tell him to go and no more chances now