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I think she's said it all..

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SadFaceMethinks · 06/03/2014 14:03

I've been having problems with my OH, which to be honest we shouldn't be having. We should be in the honeymoon period of the relationship, having the time of our lives.
However, she told me a couple of weeks ago that she was struggling with the relationship because I don't earn as much as her ex. It's all been quite open but she's decided now that I've moved in, that she wants more than I can give her.
I don't think she's over the breakup of her marriage and I think she's been fooling herself that she was capable of giving me what she thought she could.

Last night, she got in from an impromptu night with the girls and announced that she isn't sure if she loves me and that I should have some dignity.

I'm taking this as "please leave as soon as convenient" but I wanted opinions before I did anything.
I know things have been difficult, but I really want to be with her.. I suppose this is part of the problem.
She's also been really distant and is talking to other exes on FB.. My friends think she already has the next guy waiting in the wings...

I'm just heartbroken. I don't want to break it off.

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SoleSource · 07/03/2014 17:46

Move out and don't tell her. Hehe

Lweji · 07/03/2014 19:50

You can then stop doing things that are for her.
Or just play dumb and just disappear.

ProphetOfDoom · 07/03/2014 19:57

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LizCurly · 08/03/2014 09:28

She sounds really immature. Is she still impressed by what a man earns? more than how decent a man he is?

Honestly, there's not much 'dignity' in that !!!

Leave her so that she's free to date a rich entitled man. Lucky her. Hmmm.

You can date somebody who'll value the person she is dating.

She is not representative of women, really. I think men fear all women secretly think like this and they don't. Only immature, materialistic women would dump a good man cos he doesn't earn enough! How Becky Sharp.

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