NC for this.
I don't really do the whole social media thing at all. Dh is on twitter quite a lot though, which is fine.
I was doing my daily check on my ds' facebook and twitter accounts (which he knows about, I have strict rules about social media) and accidently clicked on dhs name on twitter.
He has been sending tweets to a few celebrities, which, again, is fine in general. However there were about 25 of them that were pretty sleazy. Things like 'Oh I'll be your new man baby' and 'I bet I could help you out with that ;)' and telling others how stunning they look.
I really don't do the whole jealousy thing often, but this made me feel horrible.
I had an accident a couple of months before christmas which left me unable to walk, and I have out on a lot of weight, I am mobileish now but losing the weight is going to take a bit of time. He hasn't given me a compliment lately (understandably, I do look like shit) but the fact that he has went out of his way to send messages to other women to make them feel good about themselves isn't on, is it?
He thinks it doesn't matter because they are celebrities and they won't even read the messages, and I am fussing about nothing, but in a way I think it's worse, he will compliment someone who doesn't even care, and might not even read it when I am sitting right there, in the same room as him, and I do care and barely get a sideways glance.
I'm over reacting aren't I?