Can anyone tell me how you decide whether to let go or hang on to a relationship?
I am in a difficult situation during a very unexpected separation which both of us regret and wish had not happened. He thinks we are working towards getting back together. I feel like this some days, but other days I feel like it is just over.
Without going into too many specifics we were very happy until a few months ago. Before this happened, I would have never believed I would ever consider splitting up with him. I loved him completely and everything about the relationship was fantastic.
He did something to me that I find hard to forgive. No OW, no violence. Just something that made me doubt absolutely everything and I can't seem to see "us" in the way I used to.
He let me down big time. I do forgive him for it. There were extenuating circumstances, but at the same time it still happened.
Can anyone tell me if when you feel like this it is best to either give it a try and see what happens, or whether it is best to just walk away on the basis that "if it's meant to be it will be".
The situation is very complicated and while I don't want to drip feed I also don't want to make this post really long and confusing.
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Layla0000 · 22/01/2014 14:06
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