Saw my Solicitor today and explained everything about H and how he had been behaving over the past 3 weeks.
His letter to H goes something like this:
My client informs me that the marriage was abusive, it ended with you being convicted of assaulting my client and you have continued this abuse through text messages, phone messages and a letter left in the marital home.
This must not happen again or I will be forced to take legal action against you which, as you can appreciate, will be extremely costly to you. You will also be entitled to cover the legal costs of my client.
My client wants this resolved as quickly as possible as I'm sure you do too.
My client proposes that you sign over all rights to the house to my client, you return the car and pay my client £360 per month to cover half the child care costs.
In return my client will take on all the marital debts.
With regards to access to the children, my client leaves that to you to make a reasonable and realistic proposal for regular access, which my client will consider.
You have 10 days to respond to this. If I have not received a response in that time scale I will advise my client to take action through the courts.
I trust you will accept these conditions and would like this resolved as soon as possible.
Divorce proceedings will commence after.
What do you think?????? Think he'll be angry?? Pleased???