So, have spent most of this year single. I am fussy - and rarely meet anyone I like.
Have done lots of OD this year, met lots of pleasant people, but no-one I hit it off with.
Then, a month ago met someone through work - and bang - was like a bolt from the blue. Butterflies, fireworks - the lot.
Didn't see him for a couple of weeks, but thought about him a lot. He then got in touch, asked to meet up (spurious work grounds) and we got on great. Have been texting non-stop ever since. Went on date last Sat - was completely wonderful.
BUT...since then, he's backed off. Says he has some issues with his ex - and some other "things" he needs to sort out - but that he really, really likes me - and will be back for me.
Obviously told him to leave me be, whilst he sorts his shit out - and that I won't be hanging around waiting.
Only thing is, he has really got to me - I can't stop thinking about him. And am so, so pissed off, that when I finally meet someone I like, this happens.
He has been in touch again since, saying lovely things - but I just don't think I can trust him.
So is he a player - or should I give him the benefit of the doubt when (if) he comes back?
Feel like a teenager again...