Split up, I'm still a fat horrible cunt who's a useless person...

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When does somebody eventually get the hint you have had enough of them, so they can actually stop texting their bile, cos your just not listening anymore|???

When you block their number. Hope you're ok
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Don't hint. Tell him quite clearly not to text you again and if he does report him for harassment.

You don't have to put up with that.

Do you want to tell us more?

Oh, just read my phone : Im a useless mum, should 'check down the toilet' because my miscarriages where my fault, I should eat more salad because I'm fat, everyone hates me, I have no family, no one like's me, I'm going to grow old alone because no one but him would be with us.....

I Have a load more.....

Bloody hell! Block the number.
Are you alone right now?

Wow - thats one insecure, pathetic little cunt writing those texts! Block and ignore!!

that is unbelievable!

I would go to the police and report him for harassment. Does anybody know if the police can do anything about it?

I'd take them in to the police. Does anyone know if the police could/would do domething?

Not sure why you haven't blocked him or changed your number.

Please change your number. Don't read them. He's angry because you're not with him and he's still trying to get to you and control you.

Do you have dc's with him?

Sorry about your miscarriages :(

Ignore. He'll get bored when he gets no reaction. Be glad you don't have to live with the twunt anymore. If it is really bothering you report him gor harrasment.

Don't give him the power by reading those-block it. If you need to keep in contact re admin or kids-do it by email. Take screen grabs of those texts if you think he's a threat in anyway.

It's a criminal offence. You can have him arrested for it.

We did with Dh's ex.

I would take them to the police.

Are you still reading his texts? Don't.

I agree, report, report, report!

This filth says more about him than it ever could about you.

Possibly when you go to the police when you get a "special birthday card". Tends to knock it on the head when they turn up at their door.

I feel for you, don't respond other than a do not contact me email so that it is crystal clear of your intentions if you should need to show proof.

I am alone right now, but have alot of mates who know the bile I'm getting sent -

just trying to sort xmas for me and the kids - have to keep the texts because Ive been told too -

Still, horrible

Report report report

Don't reply. Turn your phone off. Put it in a drawer. Look at the messages when someone is with you and you feel safe/strong. Report to the police. He is angry because he is losing control of you, you are not doing what he wants. He wants a reaction, don't give him one.

Its horrid but keep them, you may need them. Please don't read them alone.

It's words at the end of the day, Police do not need to be involed, I'm stronger than that, and he has gone -

just my feelings that are shot, over words, that's it x

That's not what your first post says. It's ok to feel hurt by nasty, hurtful comments.

There's a Malicious Communications Act which probably covers abuse by text. So the police might be interested.

You need to stop feeding him though.

viv My first post said it was texts

Bitof so my fault then? sorry

Why do you need to keep the texts?

If your not going to report him then bin the sim card and ignore him, job done, no more vile texts to read

Of course not, you doofus! I am just saying that you can save yourself a lot of stress by refusing to engage and arranging another phone until this blows over, as it surely will.

You will all have a much happier Christmas without him as the spectre at the feast, by the sound of it!