Name changed, as I don't want to be recognised. I need some impartial advice. This may be rambling, but I don't know what my next steps are.
My ex has a history of lying, emotional abuse, alcoholism, drug abuse and a gambling addiction. He owes me thousands of pounds. We have a Ds together who is 1.5. He has not lived with us since he was born. Ex has put himself through drink and drug rehab and anger management counselling as he wanted us back and to be a family. I was strong enough that this has not happened. His temper hasn't changed and he still drinks, though not to the extent he used to.
Ex now wants to have unsupervised contact with Ds as he does not want to see me.
I am not comfortable with Ex being left with Ds unsupervised, he does not have any family or friends locally or trustworthy who would be able to assist with contact. My family will have nothing to do with him after everything he put me and Ds through. He has not spent any time alone with Ds since he was born, in fact, he has not spent any time without me being with Ds. He once threatened that he would take Ds away and that I would never see him again.
Where can I go from here? I have no trust in him, I can see no positive outcome in letting him spend time alone with Ds while he is so young.