Abusive ex slapped 7yr old son across the face

[Blondeorbrunette]

My ex husband slapped our son across the face cos he (ex) was rowing with me, I walked away. My son was trying to come to me and he was slapped.

Feel so sad for my children as their dad is a total cunt.

What can I do re his access??

Your poor boy - and poor you. You are both still being victimised by this man.

I agree that putting strict boundaries in place needs to happen. That means you absolutely do not go in his house and he does not come into yours. No excuses. No borrowing things and using each other's stuff. And stick to the letter of the court order.

If you don't people and agencies might ask why not and infer he's not that bad if you appear to be friendly (not my opinion - he sounds like a nasty piece of work).

The police need to take you seriously as well - definitely make that complaint. Might also be a good idea to contact WA again.

Good advice from lweji.

Thank you all for your responses. I know he's a cunt but it still hurts.

I would suggest you contact women's aid. They are the experts in abuse and may be able to help give you local advice etc.