Minor problem compared to many on here, so apologies for that.
But I've liked this guy for years. Couldn't understand why he didn't ask me out, as he kept flirting with me and there was chemistry (and he was single). A few hours ago, he asked me out (to go with him to his work Christmas night out, and describing it as a date). But I haven't replied yet, because I'm really pissed off with him (despite how much I like him).
Found out a couple of days ago that he had asked out my friend a few weeks back. And she said no. (she doesn't fancy him as she thinks he is too short and she doesn't like his hobby of salsa dancing).
Now I know I can't expect anything from him as we aren't going out, but it feels like a betrayal of some sort.
Plus, he asked out another of my friends last year (she also turned him down - she said he earns less money than her).
I haven't replied, and I know I'm cutting my nose off to spite my face, but I just feel so put off now.