Why does he grope and touch me all day but never want sex with me?

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Just that ^. Why does my H touch me and grope me and say suggestive things when we can't have sex ( baby awake during the day for instance) but avoid any suggestion of having sex when we can?

I have brought this up too many times to count and he says it's me that doesn't want sex or a million other reasons that I am to blame for ( I thought you were tired/ill/asleep etc)

I understand if he doesn't want sex but why all the groping and crudeness then?

I have an idea...

Tell him at sone point during his groping, that you do NOT want sex later on tonight.
I bet he initiates sex later on and has a go at you for not accepting his sexual advances

Or see if he actually follows through with the sex.
If he does, you know he has no problems down there and it is more than likely a game he is playing

Yeah I agree with calling his bluff. Respond to his gropes and act as if you are up for it. I bet he will run a mile. Like someone else said, he is playing a game. But why? Whatever his motives, he sounds unpleasant.

Unless he has genuine problems he is trying to cover up with all the bravado.

Fuck playing games with a sex pest.

I would just tell him tonight, never ever to grope you again. (Personally I'd never want to have sex with him again either).