First i have to explain that my ds has borderline personality disorder. He has had behavioural problems since the age of 2. When he was 16 he told me he's gay, just after he'd cut his wrists and taken an overdose of paracetamol! O have no problem at all with his sexuality and he can talk to me about anything
The self harm continued for a few years. He finally met a man and they settled down, had a civil ceremony.
My ds worked in care, but always had some kind of problem which resulted in him leaving or being sacked. His relationship suffered due to his mental health and last year my ds's dp left him. My ds was devastated, he moved back with me.
I have 2 young dcs, aged 10 and 6 and a very small 3 bedroom house. My 6 yo sleeps with my dp in our bed, my dd has her own room, my 27 yo ds is in his 6 yo db room and i'm on the couch!
My ds has had major problems with prescription drug addiction and i have tried to help him kick this addiction. He is currently waiting to be put on a support group for bpd. He was receiving help before but would often miss appointments. I feel that he's not trying to help himself enough.
My 6 yo wants his bedroom back! I was cleaning the room out a couple of weeks ago and found vomit on my 6 yo ds toys and on a pillow, which was turning mouldy.y ds had been out and come home very drunk, he had vomitted in the room and not cleaned it up, he smokes roll ups and is always leaving tobacco lying about, half filled glasses of juice and sometimes his anxiety medication.
I also suffer from a mental health illness and i'm at my wits end. I really want my ds to find his own place to live. I feel bad for him but my 6 yo ds needs his room back and i need my bed!