So I am RC by birth. I was still practising when we married and dh agreed to marriage in my home church but not full nuptial mass. All good at this stage. Over the years of marriage my church attendance has been more erratic but I now go to church regularly with 2 of our 3 children.
I am obviously keen for middle child aged 8 to attend church but don't want to force him. Dd aged 10 has been encouraging him but dh says things like. "I Don't blame you. Church is the most boring place imaginable etc etc."
Ok fair enough his opinion so I don't know if I am being oversensitive about this.
However, even worse our ladt child was a happy accident (in my opinion). Maybe not so happy in his. He has more than once said dd should have been aborted. Once in front of other dc.
I want to be able to forgive this but I feel it is driving a wedge between us.
Any advice appreciated.
Thank you.