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Am I overreacting to this?

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SingSoftKittyToMe · 17/10/2013 06:40

Husband went away with work on a p*ss up work trip. I was looking through Facebook amd saw a photo of him dancing with a young, attractive woman. It looked like she was touching his leg and they were dancing closely. It also looked like they were dancing. In a circle of people around them.confronted husband who said he danced with "many women" at the conference but nothing happened, although he was very defensive.

I said it was disrespectful to me for him to dance esp like that with another woman that wasn't a friend. Huge row hat night.

Am I overreacting?

OP posts:
anon2013 · 18/10/2013 23:29

Don't know why after many threads on here far worse but this "D" H is driving me mad. Can't he see what he's doing to you? Angry

Lavenderhoney · 19/10/2013 04:27

You must stop describing yourself as un attractive and overweight. Stop doing that, as you are validating him every time you think it.

You are his wife. He shouldn't be off out dancing and socialising with other women - I don't see you arranging a night out? Does he go out every weekend or something?

He should be sticking up for you, not enabling this woman he is close friends with. He works with her, so I don't see his need to socialise with her as well- do they go out a lot?

He is not being very nice with you.

glastocat · 19/10/2013 04:37

I'm sorry but you seem to have accidentally married a complete arsehole.
None of us are as pretty and thin as we used to be, but when you have just had a baby your husband should be cherishing you, not ignoring you, making you feel low and unattractive. Please keep posting, I have a feeling you will need the support on here to see your husband for what he really is.

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