Friend rant, possibly unreasonable and petty.....

[Ezio]

Friend B says to me, her and Friend A are meeting for coffee, did i want to go, i said yes.

Come today, i get to the carpark before A and B (Same car), i see them pulling in the acknowledge me, i park and go to find friends car, they are there, so i go back to my car to get my phone.

B calls and passes me to A,
A: Want drink do you want?
Me: Nothing at the moment. (Hadnt thought about what i wanted at that point)
A: Whats wrong?
Me: Nothing, be there soon.
A: Well i was gonna have your drink waiting, but you can get your own drink.
(She hangs up)

Now we were parked in the same carpark, about 20 cars away from each other, but they decided not to wait for me, even though they could easily have found my car, its very noticeable.

After she hang up, i sent a text saying i'd meet them another time.

No Reply.

While shopping B calls me, to ask were i am, i said i wasnt in the mood to meet now after A got in a hissy and hung up on me.

Now i have had many gripes with these two.

Starting with A, who decided on my 30th birthday, that she would flake out on our previous plans for that day, so at 5pm she disappeared to see her DP, it hurt my feelings but i said nothing, because she would thing im being ungrateful.

A and B, 3 days before my birthday had a falling out, over A thinking B didnt want A to come out for dinner on the friday before my birthday.

I had to play peacemaker and i threatened to pull out of my birthday celebrations, because i was angry with them both.

Also back in May they had a falling out over the tickets to my birthday treat, i back then threatened that we wouldnt be going if they didnt grow up.

Friend B gets pissed off if she doesnt get invited to everything, she seems to think im there for her entertainment only, if she gets a better offer, she has no interest in me, if i start getting friend with a man, she gets all jealous.

I feel so pissed off with the pair of them, A is moving 600 miles away, i would think we be appreciating the time we have left to do things as a threesome. But obviously not.

Petty i know, but sometimes you cant help it.

So you went off in a huff cos you couldn't decide what to have when you were meeting up for coffee?

Do people usually wait in car parks for others to turn up? We have an unwritten rule that whoever is first bags a table and the rest follow when they can.
Your friend who offered to buy you a drink wasn't being U, but this is all so petty!

just finished reading. I have to admit, I do feel like I've travelled back in time and am back in the classroom.

I don't want to be rude, but you all sound quite immature. Sounds like you all maybe like a bit of drama and imo, once this is cleared up, they'll be another drama to fix.

Next time, just say "I'll have a thank you"

You got in a ridiculous strop over nothing. Ring them and apologise FGS.

You say they are petty but you are the one who threw your toys out of the pram. They are probably thinking WTAF?!

I couldn't be doing with friendship groups like this. Flling out, makingup blah blah blah. You all sound anout 12!

Sorry but I'm really struggling to understand how your friend ringing to say 'we're here already, what can I get you' could piss you off? How is that bad form. I don't understand why it means so much to you that they should have waited in the car park. If I was your friend in that situation I'm really sorry but I would think you were being very high maintenance and a bit peculiar.